I constantly ask myself that question.
Almost on daily basis.
I'm a y-gen, and it's important for me to be mentally & spiritually happy.
I'm not currently glued to a thing which I cant start all over again. That doesnt mean I dont have commitments.
I justify to myself, I do things at my own standards and expectations.
I always revisit my previous decisions and asking myself, if I'd do things all over again, would I do them differently.
I've been lucky so far and my regrets are little.
I used to overthink, but that's coz I read too much magazines which tells me what to think. I've stopped and it's kinder to my soul, but I still flip thru em for the colors.
I've learnt to stop feeling guilty for not doing certain things; martyrdom is not my color.
There are ppl who dont conform to certain rules or behaviour, yet the world doesnt end. And ppl move on to the next gossip quick enough; there's always next gossips.
I prefer drama on my food, but I know it's necessary in life and relationships. I need to learn not to take it too seriously.
If I dont like certain ppl, I get out of their way. I dont make life hard for them coz not my style.
Life's rule is easy; there's a destination where everybody's going. The interpretations' different, the journey's windy and I just want to make sure when I reach there, I can look myself in the eye and ask myself; "Are you happy?"
